Sometimes I think I made an agreement in another life to make sure my husband takes care of himself, come heck or high water.

You may wonder, how that worked out for me… it didn’t!

One of my brilliant ideas was to get Charlie to listen to Anthony William, the Medical Medium, about gut, heart, lung and liver health. I was sure after listening to Anthony, Charlie would want to change his eating habits because, after all, what Anthony teaches goes right along with the Word of Wisdom, right!?!

Boy was I wrong. 

Fast forward a few years; I found out that Charlie hated listening to Medical Medium “because he repeats himself and his voice is annoying!”

So, my husband basically sabotaged his health for a time, refusing to make healthy choices, or learn from the knowledge and experience of others—including Jaclyn and me. 

With his health problems, Charlie’s overly controlling behavior regarding his unhealthy food choices was hard for me to watch. I worried that he was shaving years off his life.

But then I realized something… my own behavior regarding his health was also very controlling! LOL

Something or someone needed to change! It was obviously me.

I stepped back and allowed him to make his own choices (he is an adult after all and doesn’t need me to mother him) and then changed my approach.

Have you ever heard the saying, “you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”?

Well, it’s true. A kind and gentle method always works best. No one wants to be force fed anything.

Learning a whole different approach, one without control and an attempt to force has worked wonders for both of us. He is now making wonderful, healthy choices in what he eats. He feels better, looks great, and there is much less stress surrounding lunch and dinner time.

If you have found yourself exerting too much control in your relationships, take a step back and identify how you can use a kinder and gentler approach. Then see the dose of enlightenment below.

With love,

Jeri

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Since we promised to treat you to an extra dose of light in your inbox, we include a Dose of Enlightenment for you at the end of each newsletter. We value your agency, so it’s up to you whether or not you receive it!

This Dose of Enlightenment is a frequency equation meant to clear a hidden and trapped emotion that you’ve been holding onto. 

If today's emotion is one that we have already cleared, know that we are addressing a different layer or situation this time. 

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Today’s emotion is: controlling behavior

How does this emotion apply to you? For best results, ponder this question and identify how controlling behavior applies to you.

Dose of Enlightenment: 67 + 933 = E

Say it out loud with intent: "sixty-seven plus nine-thirty-three equals enlightenment.”

Breathe. Let it go. Feel the shift. Allow your body to be filled with light.

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The Doses of Enlightenment come from the M: Collaborations with the Divine Doctor book by Jaclyn Taylor. If you haven’t picked up a copy yet and want to learn more about how this works, you can get one here: 

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