There’s a movement of people—especially women—to find balance between the masculine and the feminine energies in relationships. If I’m being 100% honest, it’s kind of annoying.

Not because I’m against that balance. But because it feels so misunderstood. It doesn’t help that so-called “experts” are promoting regurgitations of these misunderstandings.

When you have women using “femininity” to manipulate or put down husbands, boyfriends, and the other men in their life for not being “masculine” enough, something is wrong.

Seriously. If I hear another woman tell me their husband is living in his “wounded feminine” energy…

I have never heard that phrase spoken in kindness. It’s weaponized as the ultimate slam to her husband’s manhood.

Women are literally trying to control their husbands which goes against the very nature of feminine energy. 

Husbands who try to control their wives have a very real imbalance with their masculine energy as well.

I’ve studied Eastern philosophy and Traditional Chinese Medicine. The yin/yang (feminine/masculine) balance is present all throughout nature. But humans have to go and complicate things ;)

If each woman—and each man—were working on themselves, seeking to achieve that yin/yang balance within, the balance within their relationship would follow. 

It’s worth remembering that we all came here with different gifts and talents. Those gifts and talents don’t make or break you (or your spouse’s) masculinity or femininity. But they do help define which roles work well for each individual within a relationship. 

Those roles should be thoroughly discussed and explored and agreed upon by both individuals to best suit their relationship. 

Masculine energy is not exclusive to men. Feminine energy is not exclusive to women. I wish we used different words, because it’s confusing people.  

Masculine energy protects and provides. Feminine energy nurtures. And both must be present and balanced within each individual. 

Perhaps I will write a book on this one day. I have so much more to say. But for now…

If you are a man or a woman struggling with the yin/yang balance within yourself and/or your relationship, see the doses of enlightenment below. 

Please do yourself a favor and use both of them to help you find optimal balance within. 

Love from Jac

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Since we promised to treat you to an extra dose of light in your inbox, we include a Dose of Enlightenment for you at the end of each newsletter. We value your agency, so it’s up to you whether or not you receive it!

This Dose of Enlightenment is a frequency equation meant to clear a hidden and trapped emotion that you’ve been holding onto. 

If today's emotion is one that we have already cleared, know that we are addressing a different layer or situation this time.

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Today’s emotion is: misrepresenting feminine principles / misrepresenting masculine principles

How does this emotion apply to you? For best results, ponder this question and identify how misrepresenting feminine principles / misrepresenting masculine principles applies to you.

Dose of Enlightenment: 97 + 903 = E / 98 + 902 = E

Say it out loud with intent: “ninety-seven plus nine-zero-three equals enlightenment / ninety-eight plus nine-zero-two equals enlightenment.”

Breathe. Let it go. Feel the shift. Allow your body to be filled with light.

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The Doses of Enlightenment come from the M: Collaborations with the Divine Doctor book by Jaclyn Taylor. If you haven’t picked up a copy yet and want to learn more about how this works, you can get one here: 

https://intrinsicallyawaken.com

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