Tuesday, July 29, 2025
Are you a people pleaser?
Do you find yourself pretending you are fine, when you aren’t; always doing things you don’t enjoy because you want to make someone else happy; or saying things you think others want to hear?
If so, you aren’t being true to yourself.
As a small child I was told so many things that squashed my little spirit (I’m sure I am guilty of saying the same things to my own children)—things like:
“Sit down and be quiet.”
“Children are to be seen and not heard.”
“You can’t leave the table until you eat everything on your plate.”
“Stop whining—you want to cry… I’ll give you something to cry about.”
I was told what to do, when to do it, and how to act. I’m sure you can relate, because that’s what parents do—at least to some degree. I’m glad for the guidance of wonderful parents, but in the process of growing up, I lost a part of my true self.
It’s easy to fall into the pattern of being who everyone expects you to be. You are expected to act a certain way at school, church and in public.
Basically, you learn it’s NOT okay to be you—which, ironically, puts you in the same box with everyone else.
It’s time to break out of that box and give yourself permission to shine—be true to you, and embrace your inner self. It’s okay to be high-spirited, sassy, loud or outspoken and it’s okay to be cautious, shy, quiet or reserved.
However you need to shine, let it be the best version of yourself—your one and only, very unique, wonderful, amazing, true self.
You’ve got this!
If you are ready to break out of the box and get back to the real you, see the dose of enlightenment below.
With love,
Jeri
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Since we promised to treat you to an extra dose of light in your inbox, we include a Dose of Enlightenment for you at the end of each newsletter. We value your agency, so it’s up to you whether or not you receive it!
This Dose of Enlightenment is a frequency equation meant to clear a hidden and trapped emotion that you’ve been holding onto.
If today's emotion is one that we have already cleared, know that we are addressing a different layer or situation this time.
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Today’s emotion is: not being true to self
How does this emotion apply to you? For best results, ponder this question and identify how not being true to self applies to you.
Dose of Enlightenment: 70 + 930 = E
Say it out loud with intent: "seventy plus nine-thirty equals enlightenment.”
Breathe. Let it go. Feel the shift. Allow your body to be filled with light.
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To access all of our past newsletters, see our blog: https://www.enso-ia.com/blogs
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The Doses of Enlightenment come from the M: Collaborations with the Divine Doctor book by Jaclyn Taylor. If you haven’t picked up a copy yet and want to learn more about how this works, you can get one here:
https://intrinsicallyawaken.com
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Every decision you make brings you closer to—or farther away from—the Light. We will meet you at the Light!

Co-Owners & Instructors
Jeri and Jac are unified in purpose: to share the message that healing is real and that life can be really, really good—even when it’s really, really hard.
They are on a mission to spread the light to those who are ready take responsibility for their own healing, and to empower those who are ready to make a difference in their families and communities by developing their spiritual gifts.
