My friend had been dating a guy who genuinely seemed to be perfect for her… they had a LOT in common and had similar views in the areas that mattered most to her. 

As they deepened their relationship, he expressed a desire to marry her and join their families. His idea was to uproot her and her kids and move them from Idaho to Arizona, and buy a six bedroom home where they could all live happily ever after.

He thought it perfectly reasonable that she and him would share one room, her 5 kids (2 girls and 3 boys) could share one room, and each of his kids could have their own rooms. He expressed that this kind of a change would be traumatizing to his kids and so they would each need their own space. 

He also conveyed that they would have to live in the same area he was currently in, because it wouldn’t be fair for his kids to have to have any changes or adjustments to their schedules.

Ummm…

He somehow failed to recognize that uprooting her kids from their home state (where their dad lives) would likely create some difficulties for them too.

My friend diligently suggested various compromises, but to no avail. This guy was completely and utterly unbending and unwilling to find any degree of middle ground. 

Needless to say, their relationship quickly came to an end. 

I would say she dodged a bullet.

Have you ever felt an unwillingness to compromise on something you feel strongly about?

There are absolutely times when we should stand strong and immovable.

However, there are also times that behaving in uncompromising ways can really hurt our relationships with loved ones, and/or with God. 

The Truth is that God knows us better than we know ourselves. And He knows our loved ones better than we know them—and better than they know themselves. 

If we take our concerns to Him, He will give us workable solutions that will be the best outcome for everyone involved. We might not always see those blessings right away, but rest assured, they will come.

If you're ready to let go of your uncompromising attitudes and find more peace in joy in your relationships—whether at home or work, etc... see the dose of enlightenment below :)

Love from Jac

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Since we promised to treat you to an extra dose of light in your inbox, we include a Dose of Enlightenment for you at the end of each newsletter. We value your agency, so it’s up to you whether or not you receive it!

This Dose of Enlightenment is a frequency equation meant to clear a hidden and trapped emotion that you’ve been holding onto. 

If today's emotion is one that we have already cleared, know that we are addressing a different layer or situation this time.

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Today’s emotion is: uncompromising

How does this emotion apply to you? For best results, ponder this question and identify how uncompromising applies to you.

Dose of Enlightenment: 128 + 872 = E

Say it out loud with intent: “one-twenty-eight plus eight-seventy-two equals enlightenment.”

Breathe. Let it go. Feel the shift. Allow your body to be filled with light.

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The Doses of Enlightenment come from the M: Collaborations with the Divine Doctor book by Jaclyn Taylor. If you haven’t picked up a copy yet and want to learn more about how this works, you can get one here: 

https://intrinsicallyawaken.com

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​Every decision you make brings you closer to—or farther away from—the Light. We will meet you at the Light!