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The Friend Nazi

Tuesday, November 04, 2025

The Friend Nazi

My little sister is one of those people who effortlessly excels at everything she tries. When we were teenagers, I didn’t like her friends.

They were rude and overly competitive with her. They made her feel bad and I felt like it was my responsibility to show my support by identifying their faults, and encouraging her to find new friends.

In reality, I was trying to destroy her friendships by pointing out things her friends did that were unkind.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that my friendships mirrored hers. Those were the relationships I should have been focusing on, instead of interfering with my sister and her friends.

The issue had more to do with me than with her—but I was in denial.

From this experience, I learned that even when you have the best of intentions, meddling can be harmful to the person you are trying to help.

It can make someone feel insecure in their relationships and be afraid to speak up. It is important to allow others the ability to solve their own problems and to communicate in a healthy way.

If you have the propensity to interfere with others, I encourage you to look at yourself.

What is going on inside of you that makes you feel a need to try and fix someone else?

If you are completely honest, you may just find your own story is playing out in the life of the person you are trying to help!

If that is the case—take your own advice! And then clear the need to meddle by saying the dose of enlightenment below.

With love,

Jeri

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Since we promised to treat you to an extra dose of light in your inbox, we include a Dose of Enlightenment for you at the end of each newsletter. We value your agency, so it’s up to you whether or not you receive it!

This Dose of Enlightenment is a frequency equation meant to clear a hidden and trapped emotion that you’ve been holding onto. 

If today's emotion is one that we have already cleared, know that we are addressing a different layer or situation this time.

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Today’s emotion is: interfering with others

How does this emotion apply to you? For best results, ponder this question and identify how interfering with others applies to you.

Dose of Enlightenment: 157 + 843 = E

Say it out loud with intent: "one-fifty-seven plus eight-forty-three equals enlightenment.”

Breathe. Let it go. Feel the shift. Allow your body to be filled with light.

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For access to all of our past newsletters, see our blog: https://www.enso-ia.com/blogs

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The Doses of Enlightenment come from the M: Collaborations with the Divine Doctor book by Jaclyn Taylor. If you haven’t picked up a copy yet and want to learn more about how this works, you can get one here: 

https://intrinsicallyawaken.com

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Hi, we are Jeri and Jac.

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Jeri and Jac are unified in purpose: to share the message that healing is real and that life can be really, really good—even when it’s really, really hard.

They are on a mission to spread the light to those who are ready take responsibility for their own healing, and to empower those who are ready to make a difference in their families and communities by developing their spiritual gifts.