Healing is all about taking responsibility for yourself and the role you played. But what about when abuse comes up?

Is it your fault someone hit, slapped, kicked or punched you for any reason? 

Is it your fault for being raped or sexually abused (when you were a child, teen, or adult)? 

Is it your fault someone who is supposed to care about you tore you down with their words, played dangerous mind games with you, and/or purposefully messed with your emotions and then used them against you?

Absolutely not. It is never your fault, and you are not the cause. Abuse—in any and all of it’s forms—is never ok. 

So how do you clear emotions surrounding abuse by taking responsibility for your part, when someone else used their agency to hurt you? 

You begin by taking responsibility for the way you respond from here on out. 

You take responsibility for the thoughts you are having and the energy you are directing toward the person who abused you. 

You take responsibility for whether or not you choose to forgive. (Forgiveness does NOT mean putting yourself back into a dangerous situation). 

You take responsibility for your healing.

I wish I could tell you that I didn’t learn this by experience, but I did. And taking responsibility for my part is what changed everything in my healing process. 

If I can heal, so can you. There’s a dose of enlightenment below to help you get started. And Jesus Christ is right by your side, ready and waiting to help you along your way on your healing journey.

Love from Jac

PS If you’re currently in an abusive relationship, please be prayerful about what steps you need to take to safely remove yourself from the situation. You may find this article to be helpful:

https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/domestic-abuse/getting-out-of-an-abusive-relationship

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Since we promised to treat you to an extra dose of light in your inbox, we include a Dose of Enlightenment for you at the end of each newsletter. We value your agency, so it’s up to you whether or not you receive it!

This Dose of Enlightenment is a frequency equation meant to clear a hidden and trapped emotion that you’ve been holding onto. 

If today's emotion is one that we have already cleared, know that we are addressing a different layer or situation this time.

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Today’s emotion is: abused (physically, mentally, emotionally or sexually)

How does this emotion apply to you? For best results, ponder this question and identify how abused (physically, mentally, emotionally or sexually) applies to you.

Dose of Enlightenment: 41 + 959 = E

Say it out loud with intent: “forty-one plus nine-fifty-nine equals enlightenment.”

Breathe. Let it go. Feel the shift. Allow your body to be filled with light.

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For access to all of our past newsletters, see our blog: https://www.enso-ia.com/blogs

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The Doses of Enlightenment come from the M: Collaborations with the Divine Doctor book by Jaclyn Taylor. If you haven’t picked up a copy yet and want to learn more about how this works, you can get one here: 

https://intrinsicallyawaken.com

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​Every decision you make brings you closer to—or farther away from—the Light. We will meet you at the Light!